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Antonia Malchik's avatar

I already took ibuprofen today so I'm good.

Love this crux-of-argument line: "We can learn to empathise with & understand wrong conclusions without flinging judgement and shame at them - including our own, when we discover them."

Several months ago I ran into an acquaintance at the playground. Our kids had gone to preschool together so we left them to play while we caught up. Sadly, I found myself almost backing away as the acquaintance went from "switched schools because we're not down with the mask mandate" to "the moon landing was totally faked and it's really easy to prove" within under five minutes.

This wasn't an exchange I was equipped for that day (no ibuprofen on hand), but I got a little fascinated when he launched into "do you really believe that that sun [waving a hand at the sun, which was shining hard in a blue sky on a pleasant autumn day, which on its own is a miracle combination where we live] is ninety million miles away?" And it was so fun to say, "Uh, yes," and explain that I'd done my capstone project as a mathematics undergrad on Newton's Principia, and what a difference it makes to trace the steps of our modern understanding of forces of gravity and having to do the calculations/deductions of the inverse relationship between distance/mass and gravity.

I've been a big believer in embodied learning for a long time -- especially the idea that experiment and doing stuff with your hands can give kids and adults a much better and more accessible understanding of science than book learning. The pandemic years have dented that belief a bit (listening to people I think of as very intelligent but also very grounded in a physical understanding of the world go all "the virus doesn't exist" really early on), but fundamentally it remains. Somehow, that exchange made me relax a little because I thought, you know, he's on his own journey of learning and understanding and maybe we'll never end up at the same place but in a way he's still in the same realm of trying to comprehend the world around him.

(Also dented a bit by "as long as he doesn't hurt anyone," while knowing that in some ways that's quite possible, but in any case your Burke journey here reminded me of that day. Also, add Jane Austen's "Northanger Abbey" to the Gothic list! The entire book is a piss-take of the kind of helpless-girl-in-remote-castle books that were popular at the time.)

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De Sledge's avatar

Excellent read. Now, I need ibuprofen. Lol

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